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Comment on Notes of Support by vrchandran01

vrchandran01 — Fri, 04 Jun 2010 01:31:46 +0000

I would like to thank everyone who responded to the plights of Aditya. I also thank Sree for his/her response. All I can tell Sree is that he is thinking that Vijayasree is a normal level headed person. She is not. Any conversation with mentally ill person will not lead to any definite picture, role or conclusions. I would be happy to give vijayasree’s phone number here, (Cell 99628 51276). I urge Sree to speak to Vijayasree. You will find out she is criminally insane. Please note that Indian Government pried the child forcefully from the hands of an “Indian mother” and handed the child over to “Indian father”. This is worse than a multiple life sentences for a “mother”. You need to think about why the Indian government did this. Please note that in India “a mother can do no wrong” is the policy and public sentiment. In spite of this government forcibly removed the child from the “indian mother”. Please find out the reason for this.
Aditya is now very safe and enjoying new found opportunities for his age, going steady school, and enjoying friends and family. I am very happy to be reunited with my beloved son. God Bless.
Dr. V Ravi Chandran, Father of Aditya.

Comment on Struggles of Aditya by vrchandran01

vrchandran01 — Fri, 04 Jun 2010 01:22:41 +0000

I would like to thank everyone for their comments. I am pleased to inform everyone that this case now closed. As per SC of India order, Aditya was handed over to me on May 1st, 2010 and I exited India safely with Aditya and reached Dallas, TX USA on the same day. Aditya is now safe from his abusive mother, and her family. I joined him in a very good school, and unlike his previous life, he will go to the same school until he reaches the age of 18. I believe he will have stability in his life, with predictable events, friends, holidays and all other things a child of his age desperately need. I am happy to be reunited with my beloved son. God Bless.
Dr V Ravi Chandran, Father of Aditya.

Comment on Struggles of Aditya by anotherDad

anotherDad — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 20:16:06 +0000

aRanjan, do you that Dr.Ravichandran had been offering to drop all criminal charges against her in the US for the past 2 years? You can see the letter of compromise he has offered on this very website. Stop even trying to point a finger at Dr.Ravichandran. He has been going the extra mile to make peace with her for the sake of his son. The woman still keeps running around. If she should not be called a criminal, who else can be?

aMenon, what makes you think the father needs an independent psychological evaluation? If the mother felt he had issues, do you think she would not have raised them by now in the US? Are you even aware of the wild allegations she had made against the father in the US? All her allegations have been found to be baseless and delusional by an independent, court appointed psychologist. It is in fact during this very investigation that the mother’s own psychological shortcomings have been detected by the evaluator.

Both aRanjan and aMenon, I am sure that you would be shouting ‘Hang him’ if it was the father who abducted the child and kept the child away from the mother in violation of court orders of two countries. It is time for people like you to realize that women are as capable of being criminal in their behavior as men.

Comment on Struggles of Aditya by aranjan953

aranjan953 — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 07:59:11 +0000

hi
i would like to share one experience with you. you may not like it or appreciate it but i thought i should share. it had happened when i was 13 year old n now i m 28 but it has a scar on me n sorry 2 link this picture in your frame.
once a mother arrived in my town with a son of 9-11 year old,n two days aftr the father. in front of crowds he will hit the kid n mthr to tk bck the kid wid him n mom would say this is nt ur son but i got him from a rape so as to nullify dad’s demand. both will drag the kid many timess it ws there as they stayed in my town for smetime. they had been 2 all d parts of the state chasing/running to/from each other wid tht kid. unfortunately i happend 2 b in tht crowd n i felt bad 4 d kid
because no one is helping him/ them actually, the crowd laughd whn d kid cried n got abuses frm both of them whethr physicalyy verbally or mentally wtver. crowd was takin their entertainment. of course the parents were uneducated…. but yes they were naive n shameless (without thinking of the kid). i m sure tht kid must ve ran away from them n have a fractured mind.

my honest suggestion is STOP CHASING n she will stop hiding/running.
the damage u both ve done 2 d kid is irreparable but if u start with a positive thought it can be minimised. your whole act centred around(majorly) proving her a criminal. u ve tried everything as far as i can guess try this method: unconditionally drop all charges. first go 4 a confidence building. u ve suffered 4 2 years i understand but if u love your son your love will enable u to do this too.
kids not only need father’s love or mother’s love, theyy also need parents love towards each other. not only love but also their RESPECT to each other. u making his mother, YOUR CHILD’S MOTHER A CRIMINAL. when u 2 ppl r blaming with each other i do not know wt d kid is thinking about u. may b now he is small but when he grows up he may not like both of u.
most of all a stable environment is needed which is not possble with his mom running n u chasing. so take time, let tht kid grow up he will change if he has been brainwashed it may take time

Comment on Struggles of Aditya by vrchandran01

vrchandran01 — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 03:36:08 +0000

This is father of Aditya, and i thank Aranjan’s comments above. Unfortunately, there is no need for vijayasree to run like this. She had violated numerous laws, and I don;t want Aditya to grow up as a criminal. He needs to be saved from abuse, lack of education, and lack of socialization. He needs love from his father as well.
Dr V Ravi Chandran

Comment on Struggles of Aditya by aranjan953

aranjan953 — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 11:41:43 +0000

i see some point in amenon and sree comment.
as a resource rich person one can even hide his true identity. if he is so concerned he should drop all the charges against the lady who roams around with a kid, he should forgive her outrightly and let his son be in peace(at least from this parent fighting and name calling)
both are ignorant of the negative impact on the kid and trying to WIN over other. man THINK about the kid’s mentality.
i do not think tht woman is mentally ill, she is intelligent enough to save her self from a guy who is well equipped to destroy her character
video shooting, crying in front of camera all nautankis showing dramas to the whole world. a simple matter of trust starts with a simple thing FORGIVING and CHANGING yourself. try to build that with your wife first rather than seeking her. let her live in peace if ur son loves u n needs u then he will RUN to you one day no matter whoever tries to stop him. let him grow, take time n give time to both of them. do not HYPE the matter in the internet, tv, etc etc. what can you do if tht woman commits suicide kills your son out of shame or anger? thank god nothing has happend and i m sure she loves that kid enough not to do such things. stop all these blaming games you are just HURTING each other n harming that kids social atmosphere, mental growth, stability, n more of all HIS TRUST N RESPECT

Comment on Struggles of Aditya by amenon

amenon — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 00:20:04 +0000

I think the father should also get independent psycological evaluation along with the mother!! We do not know anything about the mother but from the website and videos of Mr RaviChandran, it is clear to me that he also has some mental problems!! May be a personality disorder such as narcissistic personality disorder..!!
I can probably understand why a woman would run away!!!

Comment on Notes of Support by sree

sree — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 14:58:04 +0000

Mr Ravi. I Hope and Pray GOD that Aditya reaches the right home. My take:
1. Both of you are at fault here, you seem to be blaming your wife alone. Both of you are equally responsible for Aditya’s plight.
2. I myself being an outsider, could not see the boy crying in the videos, so as a father yourself..I cannot imagine how you were able to videotape him crying. These videos show that you were trying to prove something, so I doubt it when you say these were taken well before the boy was taken away and little had you known that this was going to happen. These videotapes strongly seem to have been made to make a point.
3. I tried to know if you were worried about your wife a least for a single moment (this will help understand her doings), i do not seem to get that impression. You had questioned…and worried “if it is safe for a 5 yr old boy to be moved around in the dark and shady areas” , have you ever thought leave alone worried for a single minute, if your wife was safe at all? anything could have happened to her.
4. I am not trying to blame you here Mr. Ravi. It was very hard for me to see the boy crying in the videos and my blood boiled seeing you video tape this rather than pacifying the kid and if I were you seriously for the sake of the kid atleast I would have tried to resolve all the issues ( i know you definitely would have tried)
5. Try to find the source of the issue, you are the best judge be honest to your self. Try to find the reasons, why your wife is doing what she is doing now, why your wife has the thought/feeling that she has developed.
6. I sympathize with both of you. I can understand your pain. I sympathize with your wife, for all the distress she is undergoing. Single lady with a kid moving around place to place hiding. I dont have to explicitly bring the fact about the safety of a lady roaming around indian streets in the dark.
7. I came to know that the poor lady was caught (I am happy that Aditya is rescued, but my heart goes out for the lady as to what she would have to face now). I am writing this in the hopes that this kind of problems would not resurface for Aditya. Please dont punish her, try to win her n her confidence back with your love. If I were you at this point, now that I know the boy is safe, I would drop all the legal cases on her and meet her personally talk to her. Give her some shoulder to cry upon all her fears and worries. That way there would not be any reason for Aditya in future to keep shuttling form you to her and vice versa.
8. All these days it was about finding Aditya, and you might think my post would deviate from the main agenda and hence I have not written anything. Now that the boy is safe, please think about the future. Your conscience will never let you be happy, if the poor lady is punished.

Please take this as a positive note. Blame game leaves you/one with nothing and gets u/one no where. My best wishes to you. My best wishes to the lady. My best wishes and love to Aditya.

–Sree.

Comment on Struggles of Aditya by sree

sree — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 01:10:42 +0000

Mr Ravi. I Hope and Pray GOD that Aditya is rescues. My take:
1. Both of you are at fault here, you seem to be blaming your wife alone. Both of you are equally responsible for Aditya’s plight.
2. I myself being an outsider, could not see the boy crying in the videos, so as a father yourself..I cannot imagine how you were able to videotape him crying. These videos show that you were trying to prove something, so I doubt it when you say these were taken well before the boy was taken away and little had you known that this was going to happen. These videotapes strongly seem to have been made to make a point.
3. I tried to know if you were worried about your wife a least for a single moment (this will help understand her doings), i do not seem to get that impression. You had questioned…and worried “if it is safe for a 5 yr old boy to be moved around in the dark and shady areas” , have you ever thought leave alone worried for a single minute, if your wife was safe at all? anything could have happened to her.
4. I am not trying to blame you here Mr. Ravi. It was very hard for me to see the boy crying in the videos and my blood boiled seeing you video tape this rather than pacifying the kid and if I were you seriously for the sake of the kid atleast I would have tried to resolve all the issues ( i know you definitely would have tried)
5. Try to find the source of the issue, you are the best judge be honest to your self. Try to find the reasons, why your wife is doing what she is doing now, why your wife has the thought/feeling that she has developed.
6. I sympathize with both of you. I can understand your pain. I sympathize with your wife, for all the distress she is undergoing. Single lady with a kid moving around place to place hiding. I dont have to explicitly bring the fact about the safety of a lady roaming around indian streets in the dark.
7. I came to know that the poor lady was caught (I am happy that Aditya is rescued, but my heart goes out for the lady as to what she would have to face now). I am writing this in the hopes that this kind of problems would not resurface for Aditya. Please dont punish her, try to win her n her confidence back with your love. If I were you at this point, now that I know the boy is safe, I would drop all the legal cases on her and meet her personally talk to her. Give her some shoulder to cry upon all her fears and worries. That way there would not be any reason for Aditya in future to keep shuttling form you to her and vice versa.
8. All these days it was about finding Aditya, and you might think my post would deviate from the main agenda and hence I have not written anything. Now that the boy is safe, please think about the future. Your conscience will never let you be happy, if the poor lady is punished.

Please take this as a positive note. Blame game leaves you/one with nothing and gets u/one no where. My best wishes to you. My best wishes to the lady. My best wishes and love to Aditya.

–Sree.

Comment on Notes of Support by Venu E Balachandran

Venu E Balachandran — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 10:11:13 +0000

father, don’t worry about aditya.he will be back with more energy.this is just think as a vaccation for him.god can see ur sadness.so don’t get upset.from 2day onwards my eyes are also searching 4 him on everywhere on my way.he’ll back within days. so don’t stop searching when he’ll back and don’t stop praying. if u can mail his zodiac sign.i’ll pray 4 him